
September 30, 2025
I don’t know about you, but some days feel like a marathon I didn’t sign up for. The laundry mountain is staring me down, my inbox has 47 unread messages, the kids need rides to practice, and oh yeah—I was supposed to actually cook dinner. By the time I sit down, I’m already exhausted.
For a long time, I thought the only way to “win” the day was to do everything. Every single item on the list, checked off. And if I didn’t? Well, then I felt like I’d failed.
But here’s the truth I’ve been learning (slowly, with lots of reminders): I can’t do it all. None of us can. And that’s okay.
Instead of chasing the impossible, I’ve started focusing on this: I may not be able to do it all, but I can do something.
✨ Maybe it’s switching the laundry over and calling that a win.
✨ Maybe it’s sitting down to actually eat lunch instead of grabbing bites while standing at the counter.
✨ Maybe it’s sending a quick “thinking of you” text to a friend.
✨ Maybe it’s writing one paragraph of that dream project instead of waiting until I magically have four uninterrupted hours (spoiler: that never happens).
Here’s the thing: when we choose one something, it matters. It shifts the day. It reminds us we’re moving forward, even if it’s just a baby step.
I used to think progress had to look big and shiny. And friends, I still fall into the trap sometimes, when I feel the pressure starting to rise within. But this Fall season I’m trying to make the commitment to myself that small steps matter. Why? Because the small stuff stacks up and over time the small steps can lead to a big difference. 1 day of exercise doesn’t feel like a lot, but 100 days does. Life is long, if we are lucky, and all the small steps will mean something if we are willing to start where we are.
So today, I’m giving myself permission to let “something” be enough. And I want to encourage you to do the same.
What’s your something today? Maybe it’s drinking more water. Maybe it’s calling your mom. Maybe it’s five minutes of quiet before bed. Maybe it’s writing the first sentence or sketching the first prototype. Whatever it is, it’s worth celebrating. I know I have said this before but I think it’s worth repeating: positivity leads to productivity. The more stressed and overwhelmed we are the harder it is to get things done. My kids and hubby will be the first ones to tell you I’m not very fun to be around when I’m stressed and overwhelmed!
We can’t do it all. But we can do something. And that’s more than enough.
With Love Always, Jen